A Grateful Heart: Family Photos

The last Saturday of December we had family photos taken.

It’s one of things that I didn’t really want to do. (I hate having someone else take my picture these days.) But I knew it was important. (The mom needs to stay in the picture.)

So for a couple of hours the ever patient Leah Fontaine (who Harry kept trying to head butt in her adorable second-trimester belly!), came into our home, and captured us as we are right now in this season.

This crazy, sleepless, loud, exhausting, repetitive toddler/newborn season.

I wouldn’t trade any of it.

 

 

I am so grateful for these three loves. Sometimes I can hardly even believe this is real life. (Though the chaos of my house and the amount of laundry I have to do tells me it is.)

I was (almost) always sure God would make me a mother someday, though I did have some dark days of doubt. I’m grateful I surrendered to allowing God to write my story of motherhood, because it is beyond what I could have hoped or imagined.

Now all glory to God, who is able, through his mighty power at work within us, to accomplish infinitely more than we might ask or think. Ephesians 3:20.

 

Project Life: 2012 Recap

I finished my 2012 Project Life album last night. I had doubts it would ever get done, as two weeks ago I was only up to late September.

My album looks like it’s going to explode (I included a LOT of inserts), so I’m a little afraid to leaf through it too much, lest the rings pop open and the page protectors come loose and I cry a million tears.

In all honesty, there were a few times when I regretted starting this project; it requires a chunk of dedicated time when you get behind (and I got significantly behind several times), and I’d create quite a mess when working on it.

But now that it’s finished, I am SO glad I took the plunge. It’s amazing to look back at pictures of Harry from just this spring. 2012 was definitely the year he went from looking like a baby to looking like a little boy, and I’m grateful to have it all documented.

I waffled on whether to do it again, but Aaron encouraged me to go for it. He loves looking at it as much as I do, I think.

So since I didn’t blog too much about my spreads or my process, I thought I’d do a short recap — what worked; what didn’t, and what I plan to do differently in 2013.

(You can see the few spreads I did blog about here.)

A few things that worked:

• Include non-photo items

When my team and I went to Dallas in July, I made sure to pick up a few post cards, specifically for my Project Life album. I love the way this one looks cut across two 4×3 slots. (And please y’all, Don’t Mess with Texas.)

I also included screen caps of things like my lock screen (12:12 pm on 12/12/12!) and several of the She Reads Truth weekly memory verses.

Jessica at The Mom Creative has a great list of “bits of life” items you can include in your album. I always meant to include more of Harry’s daycare art in the book, but only ended up doing that once or twice. Really, you can include anything!

• Place Instagram pictures on 4×6 backgrounds

You can see how I did that in the above spread as well. Since IG photos are 4×4, you can’t print them at drugstore labs or even CostCo, without either letting them get randomly cropped or manipulating them in some way. So, in Lightroom (but you could use any photo editing software), I’d create a 4×6 template and then place my Instagram picture on it. That way I could still send photos to Walgreen’s to print without worrying about my IG pics getting randomly cropped. This also allowed me white space to write or add letters or washai tape or whatever.

• Persnickety Prints!

Persnickity Prints is an online lab I discovered through Becky Higgins (the creator of Project Life) just last month. I wish I’d found them sooner! They print 4×4, 3×4, AND they will round corners for you. They’re a little more expensive than Walgreen’s or CostCo, but when you get behind, just having the corners already rounded can be a time saver. (And the print quality is better.)

Below are two spreads with some 4×4 prints. I just glued the images onto some 4×6 card stock and put them in the page protector.

• Write ON your pictures

I use either a black Sharpie or a white paint-pen Sharpie to write directly on my images. I just like the way it looks, and it adds a little extra interest to the page without a lot of extra work or effort.

• Include a lot of pictures

The great thing about Project Life is you can really make it your own. I see some albums out there that are heavy on the journalling and light on the photos or heavy on graphics and digital elements or whatever. I take a lot (a lot a lot) of pictures, and I wanted to make sure I used as many as I could. (However, this is also one of the things I’m going to be better about in 2013, which leads me to my next piece of advice.)

What I’m going to do differently:

• Cull your photos!

This year I’m going to be more mindful of WHAT pictures I print, rather than just printing whatever pictures I took that week and then sorting through them. For week 1 2013, I mapped out ahead of time what images I wanted as what sizes (what as a 4×3 and what as a 4×6) and just printed those. I’m hoping this cuts down on waste (both time and paper).

• Be judicious with the use of inserts.

I also had way way too many inserts in 2012, and I’d like to reduce those both for time and the sake of the binder!

[For inserts, I just trim down a 12x12 page protector. I like Design C and Design F for inserts the most, probably.]

I mean, this one week this fall I had THREE inserts. (We went to a pumpkin patch and also Up North, so there was a lot to cover, but still.)

• Stay current!

Say it with me everyone: don’t get behind.

In 2013 …

I am using the Clementine kit this year.

I’m going to try to rely more on the kit, because I had a few 4×6 cards and LOTS of journalling cards left over in 2012.

I’m waiting on my prints for our title page + week 1 right now, so hopefully by next Tuesday I’ll be able to show you the start of my second Project Life album!

Happy memory keeping everyone!

 

The Mom Creative

 

Come Christmas

When you have a newborn, every day can feel like much of the same; a cycle of change, feed, comfort, sleep.

So in a lot of ways today feels like any other, though it’s not.

Tomorrow is Christmas, and we will celebrate new beginnings. The birth of a baby, love come into the world.

We have had a challenging month; Harry was sick for a week (with a fever for five days), I’ve had a cough for two weeks, and this baby and I, we’re still learning each other. There have been moments when I have despaired, I have to admit.

And in those moments, I’ve had this thought: I prayed for this.

I didn’t just pray for the fun happy moments of motherhood—the holding hands as we walk around our neighborhood, crunching snow looking at neighbors’ Christmas lights. The cookie making and evening snuggles. The coos and smiles and nuzzling heads. The Santa visits and lunches out with Grammy. Sleeping babies and twinkling lights on a tree.

I prayed for all of it, which includes fussy babies and whiny toddlers and fevers at 2 am. And my normally-screen-limited toddler watching so much TV that he asks for it every morning.

And what I need to remember—what I am telling you so that I will remember—is that because of Christmas, I am not alone in those hard moments. God is with me.

God came down, stepped into the world. This messy, scary, beautiful world. Jesus came so that God could be with us.

O come o come Emmanuel.

 

 

P&G Stocking Stuffers

The stockings have been hung by the fireplace (we don’t have a chimney!) with care, but sadly, they’re still empty.

Maybe you’re like me, with a new baby in the house, and Christmas shopping has fallen to the bottom of a long to-do list. (Yes, I have a to-do list!) Or maybe you’ve got all your big under-the-tree gifts, but you’re still looking for those elusive fun little (useful) stocking stuffers.

Well, Proctor & Gamble has got you covered.

They now have an eStore where you can buy their products directly (like Braun, Oily of Olay, CoverGirl, Tide, and more) and they’re offering a bunch of fun goodies in the P&G eStore! So hurry up mamas, cause there’s still time to fill that fireplace footwear.

When you order online, P&G is offering:

  • 15% off on a first-time order from a new customer, using promo code: A9Z-MN5-KY3-ISA
  • Free shipping on orders over $25
  • Free samples with every order.

Here are a few things I’m hoping will show up in my stocking:

CoverGirl Lash Blast Mascara

This is by far my favorite mascara, and I always like to have a new tube waiting in the drawer. Seriously, it’s the best. (My shade is black brown.)

OR you can get a FREE 24 hour Last Blast mascara with any $25 purchase with code LASHBLAST8.

With the amount of laundry I do in this place, I wouldn’t mind trying these new Tide PODS:

I think this Gilette Smooth Style Bundle would be a nice addition to Aaron’s (chocolate-filled) stocking:

I’m not sure what kind of gifts the grandparents have in store for Harry & Posey, but I have a feeling this battery value pack might come in handy.

Duracell Battery Bundle

What kinds of things do your normally put in your family’s stockings? What do you hope will show up in yours?

 

A Slice of Sunday

It’s a home Vikings game today, which means Aaron has been downtown since about 7 am. It’s also our first significant snow of the season, which means the kids, my mom, and I have been snuggled down since about that same time.

Winter's here! #minnesota
Our tree is up, twinkling in the corner, a dozen pieces from Harry’s Little People Nativity scattered underneath it.

We have four stockings hanging above our fireplace, and an empty frame sitting on the mantle that I bought for a picture of the kids I have yet to take.

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I have presents wrapped under the tree, and ribbon and unwrapped presents strewn all over my dining room table.

That’s basically life with a toddler and a newborn: beauty and mess.

Harry had a week-long virus with a  fever that wouldn’t quit, so we have been hunkered down, tending to him, feeding the baby, and taking her temperature 800 times a day. (She’s fine, thank goodness.)

There are so many things I want to write about — Harry’s big boy room and his transition to a bed; updating the nursery for baby sister; what’s it’s like to have two in cloth diapers; Posey’s story of how she joined our family.

Instead we’ve been watching a lot of movies, and just spending time together. (And feeding, changing, burping, and cuddling a baby.)

Harry has watched more TV since mid-November than in the previous two years combined, but I suppose that’s how it goes in the early days of going from one kid to two. (In the winter.)

It’s life.

(I started this blog post this morning, and it’s 9 pm CST right now, and I have no idea how to wrap it up, so that should about sum up our day.)